The phrase "I love you." has exactly three words, so does the phrase "I'm over you."
Hello dear people. I hope you're not heart broken and bitter. Which wouldn't make sense because if you weren't,you'd have no need to read this post but still. Today I will teach some tricks I have learned from my years of getting my heart broken by movie stars. I've seen it all trust me they all die in the end or end up getting married but you know... no hard feelings. I'm not hurt. Pshh why would I be hurt? (breaks down in tears).So without further ado here are your tips:
1) Get Your Friends and Rant:
Trust me friend, keeping all that hurt and pain bottled up inside, affects everything, your work life, your school work,
even something as basic -and as precious- as toilet time will turn into a crying session if you don't let it all out. So grab your bestie and rant rant rant. I'm also making myself available for rants which are confidential and free! So if you need to rant about it, just click here and I'll be checking all your emails and replying as fast as possible.
2) Avoid 'Smushy' Love Movies:
Please! I'm on my knees eating banana chips and begging. Do not go and watch "One Day" or "Me Before You" after your break up. It won't help anything. Don't get
me wrong enuh. Mi nah tell yuh fi guh watch "Purge". All i'm simply saying is ease of the romance a bit. At least until you feel better.
3)Get Busy
Now is the time to do all those tasks that you've been putting off. Go out. Start exercising. Try to eat healthy. Or you can be a me and catch up on all those series (that does not include romance) that you've been missing out on. Get a super power and go save the world. Become the next air bender or something. Just. Get. busy.
4) Get Out and Treat Yourself
This is so important because most times we forget that it's really self love that matters. Even if the world hates you, from yuh know seh you love you, and God loves you and you're living your life in a manner that is morally correct ( catches breath after that long sentence) that's all that matters to be honest. So go out for some vegan Ice-cream. Go to dinner with yourself. Don't become a narcissist, just appreciate yourself for a night... or two.
5) Avoid Him/Her For a Few Days
You might think you're strong and that you can handle it but honey, sometimes the best way to handle it, is to walk away from it. Try your best to discreetly avoid the person for a few days, which shouldn't be hard if you're following step 3. You don't have to block them, and shut them out of your lives, just keep the interaction to a minimum. Until you feel well enough to look at them and not want stab them in the throat. Do I sound bitter?
6) Take Your Time
The last step is something simple we impatient humans hate to do. Take time. It's fine to need two months to recover, just as much as it's fine to need 5 years. It doesn't matter how long it takes for you to get over it. What you can be glad about, is that when you get over it, eventually, you'll be fully over it and not keeping any feelings. So take your time. It's worth it.
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